I did Give the server a custom name, the host is the "official game server hosting". I can modify settings (within the game client, not a config file) and activate the server and it says its running. I can join through the "join server" button, however, the server is not appearing on the list despite that box being checked. I have forwarded the appropriate ports although I think that may have been unnecessary as this has 3rd party hosting.
If it helps (as I can change some of it/password it later)
Name: LyraServer
Host: vh-seviNuCi?Jo
also, apologies for the late response, got my second vaccine dose and was knocked down for a bit.