I rent a server that i've had for a while, I play on it mostly solo or with my brother (lives on the other side of the country) and dont play multiplayer/RP for all the reasons stated above, despite very seriously wanting to play on a ADULT RP world building server. I'd be willing to make a discord and have anyone who wants to make it happen, I cant stand trolls/griefers/clowns that ruin the intended fun, so I would be pretty on top of kicking bad actors. Or rather, if someone gets a server like this going, I'd be pretty happy to join as well.