Hi all,
First of all, I'm running a dedicated multiplayer server for my wife and me to play together, which I've modded with the FotSA and Floral Zone series, Rivers, Expanded Foods, Wool & More, Tailor's Delight, Dressmakers, Canoes, Waterfall (to fix the running water when making canals), River Fish, No Monsters Really!, and all the required mods to run the above. I am also running the server on the same computer (an Alienware m17 R4) that I'm playing the game on. I recognize that this makes sorting out the issue relatively complicated. Sorry!
When she is in the passenger seat of the sailboat, she sometimes gets bumped out. It only seems to happen at full speed when the server hitches a little bit. Usually she is just dumped into the water and we can meet up at the nearest island/shore to continue sailing, but one time she was dumped several dozen blocks on land and under the dirt.
Am I right in thinking this is probably just us putting too much strain on the server that it struggles with communicating where she is while we're sailing? Or is this something else, like a known issue with the sailboat or a conflict between mods?