I also love more realistic games and I love simulator games. This however, we're close to 100 hours in combined on my server and we're still missing a lot of content because doing one thing, anything we choose to focus on takes a TON of time and energy and resources, that then we have to refocus on to replenish spent resources.
We have a farm, we have some animals, chickens, pigs, we have a bee farm (which hasn't made it easier given how many cattails I need to just make a single skep) and we have a nice forge area and a windmill.
This morning I remembered you can make cheese and I felt like that might be a fun change of pace, till I looked up what that entails. Capturing bighorn sheep, which is a hassle to capture ANYTHING in this game because it has to either run from you or chase you, but to even find some, and then you have to do it twice so you can breed them and then you can milk the female if they have one. Keeping the animals fed has been a whole ordeal in itself and figuring out the farm in order to keep us and them fed through winter. Ugh. We'd love to build a sailboat but there is no body of water like an ocean around us to justify making one. Even a raft was useless.
Game has been out for 4 years? I do actually love it, I love what the creator is doing mostly. I even paid extra to support, but for 4 years kinda seems like a lack of content, tons of really intricate ways to do something sure, but besides ores, what am I caving for? It's far too dangerous. We found a teleporter and repaired it (lots of resources there since it was crazy far from home) and used it to find another one (same deal) and then again just to another cave. I kinda get it, but the rewards aren't enough for the grind we just put in, when we break a vase just to get some cabbage seeds.. yeah just feels like it needs more content, not more time wastey things.