I think the important thing is to know what you actually want to accomplish in the game world. It's important to have a to-do list, and getting to iron age, having enough food stored for winter, maybe putting up a mill are good things to have on it; but right after those, you've got to put down "MAKE GIANT PENIS STATUE." Or whatever. If you want an Impossibly cute tiny cottage with little hearts chiseled on everything, write that down. Make it official.
And now, I'm going to contemplate the giant penis statue with the little hearts chiseled all over it.