The main problem i encounter with Tops now is that the queue thing and popularity conflict with the unstable version it run on, i'm glad to report crashes and all but waiting hours for that is a no no, it's a huge deal cause most of the sessions end up this way. Yes a vanilla official server is a very good idea, unstable with that amount of players no that good of an idea.
And i cannot cope with the waiting the whole day running VS on my machine while doing some cores and stuff, from my experience that what most of the players i know do and it's not a good way to enjoy the game.
Not playing, if you are a healthy individual. (Still gonna try today)